Popular Nigerian gospel artist Paul Nwokocha has broken his silence on the collapse of his second marriage, sparking intense debate across social media.
In a candid video shared on his YouTube channel, the singer revealed he divorced his wife, Goodness Nwokocha, after allegedly discovering she sent explicit photos and videos to other men – a act he described as “abominable before God and man” .
Nwokocha, known for his unapologetic views on marital fidelity, defended his decision with sharp rhetoric.
“If I marry today and find my wife engaging in such acts, I will send her out without apology,” he said, addressing critics who questioned his choice to publicly air the allegations.
He challenged detractors to consider their own reactions if faced with similar betrayal, emphasizing, “I married a wife, not a whore” .
The video, posted on February 9, 2025, has since garnered millions of views, polarizing audiences.
While some applaud his uncompromising moral standards, others criticize the exposure of private marital strife .
This marks Nwokocha’s second divorce in less than two years.
He married Goodness in September 2023, merely a month after separating from his first wife, Alice. Their union, however, was short-lived.
According to ABNTV, the bride’s family formally returned the bride price in May 2024 – a cultural gesture finalizing the dissolution of the marriage .
Nwokocha’s previous marriage also ended controversially. He accused Alice of “maltreatment,” claiming she refused to cook for him despite receiving monthly household funds.
The singer has openly rejected traditional vows, advocating instead for marriages to be “for better, for better,” a philosophy that prioritizes mutual satisfaction over endurance .
Allegations
Anonymous family sources allege Goodness faced significant challenges in the marriage. Relocating from Lagos at the insistence of Nwokocha’s uncles, she reportedly entered the union without prior romantic involvement or background checks.
Once married, she was allegedly treated “like a housemaid,” enduring harassment that strained the relationship from its inception .
These claims, though unverified, have fueled speculation about the singer’s approach to marital conflict.
The scandal has ignited broader conversations about privacy, gender roles, and accountability in Nigerian marriages.
Social media reactions range from staunch support for Nwokocha’s “zero-tolerance” stance to accusations of hypocrisy, particularly given his rapid remarriages.
Critics also question the ethical implications of publicly shaming a spouse without due process .
As of now, Goodness Nwokocha has not publicly responded to the allegations. Meanwhile, the singer’s resolve remains unshaken, underscoring a narrative that intertwines personal conviction with public scrutiny.